Dear Colleagues,
How to be a good host and make a guest with disabilities or an elderly guest ‘feel at home’ at your home / guest house so that every one can enjoy the holidays together?
Inviting family and friends over for the holidays generally brings up thoughts about the menu, decor, and how to keep everyone occupied and everything spotless. Once a host figures those things out, everything should run smoothly. However, some will be faced with the challenge of how to make special accommodations for loved ones this holiday season. Read here to learn how a few adjustments, accommodations and adaptations that can help everyone feel welcomed and happy:
For Mobility Challenged
- Remove all throw rugs and low-lying clutter that could result in falls.
- Create a floor plan that allows for maneuverability from serving areas to seating areas, any lounging areas and restrooms. *Rule of thumb: Wheelchairs are usually 24-27 inches wide – Walk with one arm extended throughout aisles to ensure enough space.
- Have hand sanitizer available, most bathroom counters also do not allow for easy wheelchair access.
- Extended stays? Pick up a shower seat and install a removable shower head for easy bathing.
- Consider a folding ramp to negotiate few steps or level changes in the house. The suitcase ramp is the most versatile of products and can serve as a threshold over indoor or outdoor steps.
Alzheimer’s or Dementia
- Engage them! Answer their questions in a positive way; don’t make anyone feel bad for not remembering.
- Names and recent events may not be easily recalled or remembered at all. This may mean recapping a milestone event that the person was even there to witness.
- Speak with the caregiver to learn what their emotional triggers or stressors may be. If someone with dementia becomes upset, distraction with a fun activity can be a lifesaver.
- Lock doors and block off staircases. Put up a sign to direct people to bathrooms.
- Try to have a bedroom or quiet space prepared, people with dementia may get restless and decide to take a nap.
Developmental Delays
- Resist the temptation to offer unsolicited advice to parents.
- Do not undermine the child by addressing the parent with questions like, “Is Deepak excited for dinner?” Instead ask Deepak.
- Understand that parents need to stick to their child’s routines as closely as possible; prepare a place suitable for quiet times.
Visually Impaired
- When introducing yourself, give a standard hug or handshake or a verbal greeting like “Namaste” with folded hands but be sure to say your name as you do so.
- While introducing someone else, mention what direction they are in, “This is Anju Auntie to my left”.
- If dashing out of a conversation to grab a pie out of the oven, remember to say so!
- Provide detailed verbal fore-warnings of any inclines or steps that the guest may incur.
- When showing a blind guest to the table, placing their hand on the chair and allowing them to take it from there is often enough.
- If there is food on the table for serving, explain the location of the food by clock measurements, “Chapati’s at your 12 o’ clock.”
- Speaking louder is unnecessary unless the person is also hard of hearing.
Deaf or Hard of Hearing
- No need to yell or make dramatic mouth movements while speaking.
- Keep eye contact with the hearing impaired guest during conversation, NOT their interpreter/translator.
- Keep a text-ready cell phone or note pad and pen handy for when the interpreter isn’t around.
- Learn a few things in Sign Language, like “Welcome”, “Eat”, “Enjoy”.
- Make name cards explaining what each dish is and key ingredients.
Source: PRWeb